The holidays are a chance to gather, reconnect, and take a collective breath. But not everyone experiences this season the same way. Some teammates don’t drink. Some don’t celebrate certain holidays. Others prefer quieter activities over loud parties. And many are simply craving a moment of ease after a long year.
An inclusive holiday party makes space for all of those realities. It creates an environment where everyone can participate comfortably and where connection is easy and joyful. Here’s how to plan one your entire team will truly love.
1. Start With a Welcoming, Flexible Theme
Instead of centering your party around a single holiday or tradition, choose a theme that feels broad and seasonal. Think:
- Cozy Winter Gathering
- Festive Wellness Break
- Spiced Happy Hour
- Creativity & Connection Night
A universal theme keeps things light and welcoming while still giving your event direction and personality.
2. Offer Alcohol-Free Options That Feel Special
Even if you serve alcohol, inclusive beverages are essential.
Not everyone drinks alcohol, but everyone deserves something delicious, celebratory, and thoughtfully crafted. Serve drinks that feel intentional, like:
- A spiced cranberry spritz
- Herbal elixirs for relaxation
- A refreshing citrus-ginger mocktail
- Sparkling teas with fresh garnishes
Alcohol-free doesn’t mean boring and high-quality mocktails often become the star of the night. (And yes, this is where I love to help teams shine!)
3. Organize a Hands-On Activity
Interactive elements help everyone feel included, especially if they don’t want to just stand around and mingle.
Activities create natural conversation starters and shared memories. A few great options:
- Gingerbread decorating
- Holiday mocktail mixing
- A cozy immunity tea-making workshop
- Simple DIY spice blends or office snack jars
- A gratitude ritual or reflection prompt
Hands-on, sensory-based activities lower social pressure and invite people to connect in a more relaxed way.
4. Be Mindful of Food Inclusivity
An inclusive menu considers:
- Dietary and health-related needs
- Cultural diversity and holiday traditions
- Allergies and ingredient transparency
A balanced spread of fresh produce, warm comfort foods, dairy-free and gluten-free bites, and some protein options helps everyone feel cared for.
Pro tip: label everything! It removes guesswork and creates instant inclusivity.
5. Consider the Energy Level of Your Event
Not everyone loves a loud, high-energy party, especially after a long workday. Blending energy levels works well:
- A cozy lounge area
- Light background music
- A hands-on craft/activity station
- A space for mingling
- A quiet corner for decompression
6. Make Participation Low Pressure
No forced shares, no high-stakes competitions. Think invitation, not obligation. People connect most easily when they feel autonomy and spaciousness with a little bit of guidance.
7. Incorporate a Wellness Touch
Wellness isn’t about restriction, it’s about feeling good. Little touches go a long way:
- Herbal teas for supporting your immune system
- A mindful moment to close out the year
- Cozy blankets or candles for ambiance
- A catered healthy lunch
The goal is to create a comforting and restorative experience for everyone.
8. Celebrate Without Centering Consumption
Focus the celebration on:
- Connection
- Creativity
- Shared experience
- Appreciation
Without an alcohol-centered agenda, the experience becomes more inclusive for everyone.
Final Sip
An inclusive holiday party isn’t more complicated - it’s more thoughtful. When you design an experience that supports different needs and acknowledges diverse lifestyles, something beautiful happens: everyone feels at ease, engaged, and genuinely part of the celebration.
If your company is planning an end-of-year gathering, I’d love to help you create something warm, festive, and inclusive. Whether that’s a healthy-ish holiday happy hour, a gingerbread decorating class, or a wellness elixir class that brings your team closer together, I’m here to help.



